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Would I stay in Korea if I wasn't married to a Korean?
Hmm…maybe not. I didn’t plan to stay in Korea. I came open-minded about how long I would work here, but I didn’t really imagine settling...
Lynette Allcock
Aug 1, 20242 min read
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The Traveler's Soul Care Companion
Planning to travel or move abroad? I created this guided journal just for you! A journey overseas is full of ups and downs. The...
Lynette Allcock
Apr 3, 20241 min read
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Deep Connections in Temporary Circumstances: Noemi's Words for Wanderers
"It is okay to seek deep connections in temporary circumstances...Knowing that a friendship might end doesn't make it any less...
Lynette Allcock
Apr 3, 20246 min read
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"Expat Wife, Happy Life!": Florence's Words for Wanderers
"Living abroad has allowed me to explore different facets of my identity and embrace aspects of myself that may have remained dormant in...
Lynette Allcock
Mar 27, 20247 min read
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You're Not Alone: Marie's Words for Wanderers
"For the longest time I genuinely thought I was alone in my struggles and what I went through as a TCK." What does it take to survive and...
Lynette Allcock
Mar 20, 20247 min read
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What If Being "Behind" isn't a Bad Thing?
What if a delay is a blessing? I've often felt "behind" in life. I went to college later than my peers, starting my freshman year at 21...
Lynette Allcock
Feb 29, 20243 min read
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You Are Doing Something Brave: Vanesa's Words for Wanderers
"You don't have to feel brave to be brave!" What does it take to survive and thrive abroad? In this "Words to Wanderers" series, expats...
Lynette Allcock
Feb 8, 20245 min read
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The Power of Presence: Jenny's Words for Wanderers
"Living cross-culturally taught me the power of presence. Sometimes I didn't have a full arsenal of words at my disposal -- and this was...
Lynette Allcock
Feb 1, 20246 min read
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"It Wasn't Love at First Sight": Our Story
This December, my husband (S) and I (L) celebrate our first wedding anniversary. Let us tell you how we met: L: “Hmm? You have someone...
Lynette Allcock
Dec 15, 20237 min read
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"He's Not My Type!" Discovering What I Needed in a Husband
How do you know what to ask God for in a spouse? How do you figure out what you’re looking for in someone else? I met my husband on a...
Lynette Allcock
Nov 29, 20233 min read
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Deciding to Stay or Go: Eva's Words for Wanderers
"Don't leave too soon, but also don't stay too long." What does it take to survive and thrive abroad? In this "Words to Wanderers"...
Lynette Allcock
Nov 26, 20234 min read
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Fear of Missing Out on Love
Sometimes we hold back from opportunities, adventures, or God's calling because we're afraid of being lonely -- or even of missing out on...
Lynette Allcock
Nov 24, 20235 min read
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You Are Not a Burden
I spend a lot of mental energy trying to prove that I’m not a burden. Or, at least, trying not to be a burden. I realized this recently...
Lynette Allcock
Nov 3, 20232 min read
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Faith & A Family Abroad: Deborah's Words for Wanderers
"If you have some tradition from your culture that you would like to teach your kids, don’t be discouraged because you are living far...
Lynette Allcock
Oct 23, 20237 min read
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Make Time for Joy: Stephen's Words to Wanderers
"There is a difference between seeing hard things through to completion, and moving on from a space you have outgrown." What does it take...
Lynette Allcock
Oct 16, 20238 min read
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Settling Down is Hard to Do
"Staying might, just might, offer an alternative adventure; the adventure of building a whole new skill set -- that of Staying." (Dr...
Lynette Allcock
Oct 12, 20234 min read
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From Disintegration to Transformation: Nicole's Words to Wanderers
"Living in a new place can be incredibly transformative, akin to becoming a butterfly. However, most people forget there is a time when...
Lynette Allcock
Oct 9, 20234 min read
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The Grass Is Greener Where You Water It: Tiffany's Words to Wanderers
"It’s always too easy to focus on the bad...the grass might appear to be greener on the other side, but in reality, it’s actually greener...
Lynette Allcock
Oct 2, 20235 min read
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Life on your Own Terms: Emily's Words to Wanderers
"There is a lot of freedom you get in leaving your country of origin...You get a giant permission slip to start living life more on your...
Lynette Allcock
Sep 25, 20234 min read
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When Life Abroad Challenges Your Assumptions: Heather's Words for Wanderers
"Life abroad gave me continual opportunities to learn that limitations do not lessen my worth to God or to others." What does it take to...
Lynette Allcock
Sep 18, 20238 min read
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